Cruelly inevitable, our educational journey is inundated with these obnoxious moments called "Separation".
An explicably melancholic series of events just burgeoned in my life and left its mark there.
It taught me a lesson.
A lesson that all of you should learn.
A lesson that all of you out there should know about.
A lesson which would change your life forever if you are to change after reading this.
In life, it's usually at the very moment of separation that we feel the sting, the tear, the deplorable sensation of being torn asunder.
Then comes faint streaks of joy that were concocted by your friends and you, followed by mountains of regrets, of things you ever wished to do but it's just that you made the wrong choice then.
it is only upon being separated when you feel the hurt and when you start to love him/her even more, making up for lost time. - a true classic.
But i tell you the truth, start now, not later, but now.
Why? Technically, it's not possible to make up for all the lost time at that very moment of separation.
We all know that, yet, we choose to take the people around us for granted.
At times, unfortunately, the one dearest to us.
And when it comes to departing, all these thoughts of regret just comes crashing down on us.
So, i've prepared a few practical methods to ease that moment of regret and agony, and turn it into a moment where you'll go "Atleast i've given my all and there's nothing to regret about".
1. Do not anger.
Allow love to come in and fix all of your problems and i guarentee a long lasting friendship filled with love and altruism. :)
2.Love mercy.
For forgiveness and love are the greatest attributes of us, humans. Forgive what may come your way and fill your life with love and respect and love will be returned in sensatioanlised proportions.
3.Love your neighbours as you love yourself.
When you treat others as how you would treat yourself, you have become love itself.
You know, the thing that saddens and, probably, disgusts me the most is to hear someone say "I've never told my parents/friends how much i love them and how important they are to me".
Thursday, July 24, 2008
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